dec,

no disrespect here. but if you don't want to let him instigate you, don't respond.

by responding to his little jabs you are just playing into his hands. See, he's trolling for a reaction, and he succeeded.

I may not be the best to give advice on the topic, as i have been known to be passionate, but after awhile, you need to know when to hold em and when to fold em, as the wise Kenny Rogers once said.

Fold em, and let it go.

Kitso
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