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Originally posted by SmartBlondeGPhB
I have to agree. I do find it frustrating to try to explain my involvement to a S.O. who isn't greek, but I've never even considered using it as a criteria for picking a potential mate. From experience, "must have a job" is a MUCH more important criteria.
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I agree with that!
I've dated greeks and non-greeks, and married a non-greek. My husband did have a bit of trouble coming to terms with my commitments to my sorority, especially when I had to disappear for 2 weeks for rush, but he learned to deal with it... after all, I was an AEPhi long before I was his girlfriend/wife!
You get a lot of greek/greek couples because once you go greek, a lot of social venues (mixers, Greek Week, etc) are opened to you - some of which non-greeks aren't invited to (mixers) and others of which non-greeks just tend not to go to. Plus, if you live in your GLO's house, you're living with your sisters/brothers, not a mix of greek and non-greek. If most of the guys/girls you're meeting are greeks... you do the math
But that doesn't mean you have to restrict yourself to dating greeks in any way.