Kappa doesn't make men, Men Make Kappa.....
So your Christian beliefs should not be komprimised at all. You are (or should be) a man first.
All in all, the best advice I can give you is that becoming a Real Kappa Man is not easy, as it shouldn't be. You will have to earn it in more ways than one. Just remember that anything worth working for is worth it in the end.
Any fraternity is only what you make of the experience. If you don't do work before you attempt to join, you probably won't if you are fortunate enough to become a member.
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