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Originally posted by GirlWithPearls
I was wondering how people feel about dating other greeks....
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I try to stay away from Greek girls now days. My first freshman year I went crazy over Greek women and stayed that way for the next 3 yrs. I have an array of exgirlfriends, most of whom were Greek. Now when I look back I realize they were too b!tchy and I was too much of a d!ck. It was a horrible combination, that would explain why I was a serial dater in a certain house. For me, the best GFs I've had ( with the exception of one ) ended up not being Greek. However, I think Greek women vary between college towns and non-college towns. In college towns a large part of them seem to be stuck up, at universities in big cities they don't seem that way at all. Not all greek girls in college towns are b!tchy in my view. You do have that 25% of them that are extremely cool to hang out with and you often find yourself asking the question "Why the hell is she in a sorority?" I know a few of these girls, emphasis on FEW. In my college town the smart girls who became greek and who were actually pretty cool ended up dropping out for the most part by the middle of their Jr. year or start of their Senoir year. I didn't really notice it until after living there for a couple of years. When I asked some of them why they dropped out after being in it for 2 yrs, most of them said it was all a bunch of B.S. that they didn't feel like dealing with anymore. And this was a big school, boasting 60,000+ on paper. The greek community is pretty big, and sorority rush is one of the most ruthless in the nation. In any case, I could careless if a girl is Greek or not. The person matters more than the affiliation these days. And outside of a college town, I rarely meet girls who are affiliated with a GLO. In fact, most people in the real world could care less what GLO you were in except for greeks themselves. Now that I look back on it all I realise that the only reason why I wanted them to be greek was so that I could show them off as if they were a prized trophy, and I think they did the same to an extent when I was around their sisters. Its all a soap opera if you ask me. But thats not to say that I still don't get turned on when I meet a cute ZTA, Alpha Gam or a DG.
I think a girl being Greek can add more flavor to the relationship, but its not required.