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My ex was greek. it worked for us when we were together since we both had chapter at the same time and our time commitments to each of our chapters was more or less the same so neither of us could really whine that being involved in greek life took time away from being together. Plus since fraternity/sorority pinnings are done publicly and the girl gets serenaded by her boyfriend's fraternity in front of her whole sorority, its your 5 minutes of fame at school and its really touching.
But on the flip side, my chapter and his chapter were very close, there was a lot of dating going on between the two and just in general a lot of close friendships. This made it hard because it was like everyone was involved in our relationship. Its like when people say when they get married they marry not just their significant other but the parents as well. It was something similar, I wasnt just dating my ex, I was dating his entire fraternity!! It was even more frustrating after we broke up because everyone and their mom had something to say about it and we just werent allowed to live it ourselves.
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