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Originally posted by Lizanabavi
[i] Flag!!! Delph998, this man has fed you nothing but a bunch of bunk!!!
He married that woman because he wanted too, don't fall for that. I'm not suggesting that you can't handle this man; but why put yourself through uneccesary heartache when you don't have too? What he did to those two women, he will do to you.
A man will do what you allow him to do, and if he knows he can play with your emotions -he will. At this point, he's trying to fill you out, to see where his boundaries are. Leave that man where he's at... the altar for prayer.
*When in doubt... don't!*
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You say this with such conviction!! So you don't believe that he's made two big mistakes, and he's made a change in his life? That's what I get from you. I understand that there are two sides to every story--he has a jacked up past. He's never made it seem like his two wives were the blame every time. He's admitted his faults as well. However, like I said in the first post, he's changed. When Christ enters your life, it can change completely!! That's why I've considered giving him an opportunity.
I've decided to give him a shot simply because I've lived a guarded life for so long. I'm not gonna marry this dude tomorrow...I'm just giving him an opportunity to prove himself and then I'll see if "WE" can be.
OH BY THE WAY: we're going out tonight, guys!!