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I know I have said this a couple times on here but have a place that you and only you know about on or near campus to get away from the drama. It can be a non-Greek friend's apartment, a corner of the library, a shop downtown tucked away on a side street...whatever. Everyone needs "me time" and with cell phones and IM (turn these off, incidentally) it is getting harder and harder to find. It might not make whatever is the issue of the moment go away, but it will make you feel refreshed.
The people I saw get the most stressed out about sorority stuff were those who had no other friends and nothing outside of the sorority. It should be part of your social life, not all of it.
and like whirlwind said -- don't go ballistic but don't hide it either. Saying "everything is fine" through clenched teeth just makes things 100x worse.
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It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
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