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They have only had three events. I also think her big sister didn't really try to get to know her. From what I could see, she has been at most of the meetings for pledging.
I think it was wrong to not tell her she had one day to get out and then kick her out like they did. You can argue that if she did this at her job or at her apartment, she would have been on the street, but THIS IS NOT HAPPENING because she didnt pay her rent or she slacked off at job. She gave up her apartment when she moved in and she probarbly arranged to have it subleased and such. It just isnt fair to expect her to be able to move out while she is trying to go to school and such.
Also, what evidence did the sisters present that she has been spreading things about the sorority (MTV, secrets). Obviously heresay goes a long way for those girls. I know a lot of gossip on my campus happens because people are looking to start trouble with others.
I hate the whole attitude that people have to prove they want to belong to a group. Its kinda like they have to go out of their way to get someone to like them and that the sisters do not have to do anything to make the girls feel comfortable or accepted. I think local sororities should be under panhellenic rules about rush and hazing and such, and have a more positive outlook on people joining than "proving"
Pledging for me was great. We didnt have this crap about people missing events and we were treated as equals with the sisters and they helped us along the way.
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