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Originally posted by delph998
You made some good points. He's been divorced from his first wife for about six years. He's been divorced from his second wife for two years. He and his second wife came to the church together, but not as husband and wife. They were going together at the time. He said that his second wife left because she just didn't want to be married any more. That's strange to me too. But I know that since, he has hardly ever mentioned her name. He has told me that they really weren't on the same level and both parties tried to make it work, but it just didn't work.
With this first wife, he did say that they both grew apart once she started making more money than him. According to him, she wasn't at home as much, he was taking care of the family more, she started dictating what he could do, etc.
UNDERSTAND, I do know that there are two sides to every story, so I'm sure he was wrong at a lot of things. One, if he knew that the second wife wasn't on his level, why marry her? But like I said, he wasn't where he is spiritually nor mentally then. He's grown a lot since all of that stuff went down.
You're a mess TonyB06! 
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I've been down this road before, and if you don't take heed to the "flags" that God has allowed you to see -You will have nothing but heartache.
Are you prepared to deal with a woman who may still have feelings for him?
Women(and Men) are territorial, and you'd be amazed at how they will act once they feel like they've 'lost' that person. As long as this man is by himself and not dating anyone, it's all good. But if they see you two together. DRAMA!!!
This man still has feelings for his Ex-wife, no matter what he may tell you. His actions are speaking louder; he came to church with the woman!!! When you are truly over someone, you don't do stuff like that.
He also has an inflated ego: Men have to feel like they're needed; and by him having problems with his ex-wife making more money than him, that contributed to their demise.
Delph998, if you hook up with this man, you will be unequally yoked, and have nothing but problems. Be patient... and pray that God will bless you with someone who is more on your level.