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Originally posted by ZTAngel
No, it's 215 pounds of all muscle. While he looks pretty, he sometimes doesn't realize his own strength when it comes to me.  So, cuddling hurts since his arm is like 50 pounds of pure muscle.
I've TRIED compromising with him and being like, "Let's just cuddle right as we're drifting off to sleep." He claims that he doesn't realize that he's cuddling with me at night. So cute. But, I believe that we can control a lot of the things we do subconsciously and in our sleep. I dunno. I guess there's not a solution to this. I will spend the rest of eternity trying to roll him back over to his side of the bed whenever he tries that in the middle of the night. It's like trying to move a log. So, I guess I'm just taking a poll of who enjoys cuddling.
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My name is KillarneyRose and I am not a cuddler!
Try this, ZTAngel, it might help a bit! Mr. KR will snuggle up to me when we're going to sleep and put his arm over me or whatever and I go into immediate claustrophobia mode! So I say to him, "Can I hold you instead?" and he rolls over with his back to me and I put my arm around him. Sometimes I fall asleep that way, sometimes he drifts off first and then I roll over. But either way it works out, at least you won't be losing circulation in various body parts!!!