I can say that I do recall a message that was written in a particular forum (I won't say which one) but the young woman wrote a particularly LONG post about how she was sitting at her school's libraray/study lounge (if I recall correctly). She went on to say how she couldn't believe that she was hearing two women talk about the stereotyped personalities/looks of a particular organization and how the other said she was going to rush but she didn't know.

Besides the fact that the e-mail system "seems" anonymous, I would have to say that was a form of a$$ kissing. Although posting such really wouldn't benefit the woman either way (because she may not attend school where any of the sorority members on the board attended) it was a$$ kissing.

I've seen it a million times. Like "These women don't know that they shouldn't do XYZ?" "I would never do that because blah,blah, blah." Okay so you may be a more seasoned a$$ kisser than the next prospective but still an a$$ kisser nonetheless.

It's a$$ kissing any was you slice it.

What's the purpose of letting the women on an e-mail page know that women in your library were discussing them or not discussing them besides a$$ kissing?

I will say that the women in the forum didn't seem to mind so what the hell.

I did expect one of them to say something like "Although it is all well and good for you to inform us that XYZ is going down at your school, I would suggest that you take more time tending to whatever it is you were tending to prior to your overhearing this discussion and not what people are saying about my organization."

But...no one said that so it must be cool with them. I KNOW that in my particular organization's forum, someone would have broken it down like that. But to each his/her own.

OUT!!!