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Originally posted by KDbutterfly
Geez, I'm just saying, it doesn't seem like it's worth going to court over. Also, fraternities are a little different than sororities. What seems like hazing to us, doesn't seem all that bad to guys. I know that if anyone in my house were getting hazed like that, we'd get them in trouble so quick, but we're girls. Guys get made to do push ups and they feel it builds character. If they don't, then they just quit, but most guys stick it out, cause they don't see the problem with it. If they were getting physically harmed though, that's a completely different issue, and one that I feel is definitely worth fighting against. But that just isn't the case here.
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i definitely agree with you...fraternities definitely differ from sororities when it comes down to hazing. all i am saying...and if it seemed directed towards you it wasnt...i was using "you" in my previous post as a "you" in general...but anyways...all i am saying is its hard to make a statement, unless you have actually been in the position of being hazed. to someone on the outside it may seem to be something so tiny and not offensive...but to the person bein hazed no matter how little the thing was they had to do...it could really make or break them. which i guess is sort of the point...to have them MAKE it stronger and bond together, i dunno...i just honestly dont see the point. i have bonded plenty well with my sisters without being hazed!