These are all amazing ideas; thank you so much to everyone! The shower is next month, and the MOH has finally stepped up to do the planning. I did the invitations (I work at an ad agency, so one of my artists helped me make them!)--- so I am bowing out-- the MOH is the bride's childhood best friend, horribly disorganized and a control freak. I'm laying low for this one!!! Mostly for my own sanity's sake. The wedding is in Dec... only a few more months to go until the insanity dies down