[delph998]

Originally posted by Gyrl7
You know it's unfortunate that some of the choices that we make in the past turn out to be horrible future mistakes. Although, children are blessings, quite a few are not planned and there are not that many 16 year olds who plan to have children (other than the rejects on Ricki and Maury).

I am quite sure if brotha man # 1 knew that he would one day be on the mind of a beautiful sister and was trying everything he could to attract her to be his queen 4ever, he would have made sure his plate was clear of drama, wives and children. However, you did say he is maturing mentally and spiritually, so he should be thinking about taking care of his past and future responsibilities. And he HAS TO be able to master the art of priortizing.

I say go for it!!! I mean if nothing else it can be a lesson on what you will and will not accept the next time around should this not work out.

As for Brotha Man numma 2, chal I would rather deal with the physical "baggage" of contestant numma 1, than all of this other guys mess. Because his emotional rollercoaster acting behind has far too many inner issues to be trying to hook up with a woman right about now. He needs to clean his house up first!

Hope things work out for you!!!

That was soooooo sweet! You get a big fat THANK YOU! I 'preciate it!