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Originally posted by sunnycheeks
I totally agree! I mean, if there was a problem during the first four weeks and the actives had even a slight idea that they would not let her "cross over" - they should have let her know and given her a chance to prove that she really wanted it. I completely agree that she was a slacker, but I've been through the process before and now have my own expectations. Some ladies just don't get it - maybe some earlier intervention could've helped ....
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But who in their right minds would think that you don't have to do ANYTHING to get into a sorority. If those were her "friends," why would she feel bad that they had to do all the work and she wasn't doing anything? She never even tried to make up the events she missed.
If you were dating someone and they stood you up on every date that you all had planned, wouldn't you dump that person? Or would you just stay together because they didn't get a warning that your relationship is in jeopardy?