If you don't personally know a member of XYZ, what's attracting you to them? Image? What you think the organization stands for? That means like someone said a while ago you must not be doing SERVICE or must not be involved in any CIVIC organizations. If you were you'd know several
XYZers.

Look interests, I'm in the same boat, and Im mad that Ive even said this much but yall are too much. Don't put yourself out there so much. Talking about whatever is fine but once it gets to talking about membership related stuff you have stepped over some bounds. IT COULD ALL COME BACK TO YOU FOR REAL THOUGH THE GREEKS HERE DONT TELL YOU THAT!