Dangggggg! I think that everyone has thier own opinion on what should be said and not as far as potentials go. And I can see both sides, But just for you folks trying to join a BGLO, a few words of advice.
1. Descretion is best.
2. Repeat #1
3. Don't be so eager to show all of your cards too early in the game.
4. Our orgs are world wide, and guess what? We talk to each other all the time.
(I could tell you the name and rank of this Kandy azz fella trying to perp Kappa in Germany. Germany!!! You get my point.)
If he ever makes it back state side, and shows up in DC trying to perp, he will get the beat down of his life.
If you do show your true colors and let a member know your feelings, be sure that your s$%^t is tight.
While I think that you should get to know the members of that org,I am sorta feeling Damn on not having my e-mail and other info out there for everyone to know, especially if I am a potential. The great part about forums like this is that none of us know each other (for the most part). That enables us to say things that we might not say face to face. Now I may not (and often don't like) some of the questions that people pose here. But you know what? Who cares? Yawl don't know me, and outside of the Nupes, I probably won't meet any of yawl, unless you come to DC and want to Kick it with a brother.
Just my two cents.
MN
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