Personally I don't believe I am kissing anyone's a$$ and I will never kiss ANYONE'S a$$ to get along with them. This is how the whole thing works...
How would I look if I just went to XYZ's rush and didn't know a soul there? It is about geting to know people in the community and getting to know other members of the sorority. Why would I join a sorority in which I don't know any of the members, and just popped up one day. I surely am not in the a$$ kissing buisness and I don't see anything wrong with expressing your intrest in an org to the members, of course XYZ isn't all I think about, I do have a LIFE! We all do here and I see Sexy Mocha's posts and she carries herself with the upmost respect and dignity, the way a prospect should act! She isn't kissing butt at all!! Being greek is a privlage and I will try to earn it in a RESPECTFUL way... To all prospects good luck in your quest... and don't let anyone deter you from your dreams...
To Damn and Pleaze,
Don't be mad at other interests because they are seeking and working harder at persuing membership into their respective orgs THAN YOU! You may percieve it as a$$ kissing, for most it is just about persuing their dream. Instead of critisizing, work on yourself and BE YOURSELF!
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In complete darkness we are all the same... It is only our knowledge and wisdom that separates us... Don't let your eyes deceive you
Janet Jackson
[This message has been edited by Diva_56 (edited September 21, 2000).]