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Originally posted by Platinum Honey:
I did read it again and.......  your point is 
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Platinum Honey,
From one Sisterfriend to another--
Please do not take my post the wrong way--in a negative way--b/c I am only trying to help you, just as Sisterfriend Eastcoast Sunshine was...But was your response necessary?? If you read my post and the posts of Exquizit and Eclipse
, then you should understand what I mean...We as Sisterfriends are lucky to have this forum b/c it provides us with an opportunity to engage in conversations with members as well as others interests...this means that we should not be negative to each other, esp. when someone is trying to help you b/c
they are not obligated to!! Instead of responding with a "rolleyes", couldn't you have responded with a "Happyface" b/c Ms. Eascoast Sunshine did not have an attitude with you?? All she was trying to tell you was that just b/c the times have changed a bit, you nevertheless need to exercise
Discretion and Humility!! This is why some Sisterfriends choose not to attempt to help others--b/c they get jumped on when they are helping you. Next time you may not be so lucky. Maybe you'll be "checked" by a member--you wouldn't dare use a "rolleyes" in response to them when they were trying to help you--and if you would, then you certainly won't make it far
AT ALL in your quest for membership into this presigious sorority!!
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"If there is no struggle, there is no progress"--Frederick Douglass