As much as I hate to a say this! Welcome to the real world of Alum!
Hell, I have been working at this for 37 years! There are many more on here also!
Make your Alum Group important to (Chapter) if you may!!
I am in constant Contact with a Brother who is Pres of the Alum of his Chapter and he gets just as frustrated as You and I do!
I was there last year as guest speaker, I am in Ks, His Chapter is in Fl!. He lives in NY! He is not the only one! One of our brothers from Ca picked me up at the airport for this neat weekend! I am also working with Alums, different Chapters around the country.
You damn bet it is a lot of head bangng by you, they will get mad, but, Who Do They Turn To when the Shit hits the fan? (Some one who Cares!
Hope is what you never get burnt out on!