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Originally posted by Eclipse
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How long has he been divorced from first wife? Why did she just up and move to Chicago 3 months into the marriage? That sounds a little strange to me. Does he recognize his role in the breakup of his marriages?
If he is blaming his exs for what THEY did and not looking at his role in it, I would wonder. After all, as I say to my girlfriends who are constantly having man drama: What is the ONE constant in all of your relationships: YOU. If he is willing to take responsibility for his role in the relationships I would say he has potential, dispite his "baggage."
Now as far as the other guy, it's all about CHARACTER and I'm sorry Tony, but he needs a little more development in that area!
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You made some good points. He's been divorced from his first wife for about six years. He's been divorced from his second wife for two years. He and his second wife came to the church together, but not as husband and wife. They were going together at the time. He
said that his second wife left because she just didn't want to be married any more. That's strange to me too. But I know that since, he has hardly ever mentioned her name. He has told me that they really weren't on the same level and both parties tried to make it work, but it just didn't work.
With this first wife, he did say that they both grew apart once she started making more money than him. According to him, she wasn't at home as much, he was taking care of the family more, she started dictating what he could do, etc.
UNDERSTAND, I do know that there are two sides to every story, so I'm sure he was wrong at a lot of things. One, if he knew that the second wife wasn't on his level, why marry her? But like I said, he wasn't where he is spiritually nor mentally then. He's grown a lot since all of that stuff went down.
You're a mess TonyB06!
