Hi Jh124,
I can understand what you are saying about our chapter. We don't exactely have a strong alumnae chair support, but our deltas do try to get a hold of people, but as college girls do, things come up and things tend to lag at times. I have to agree with adpialumcsuc that I too got my invitiation way too late, but I went anyway. Hey some girls didn't even get them! I knew when it was and I made plans a month before to be up there during that time. I know it shouldn't be our responisbility to contact people in this situation but it does make for hurt feelings. I will pass this info on to the current president and alumnae chair of Eta Rho, to make sure that this doesn't keep happening and hopefully next year they will learn from this.
Trust me, you aren't the only alumnae frustrated.
I hope that next year you will be there and I hope that you will remember ADPI as it has always been for you.
Thanks!