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Hmm.
I think what concerns me, more than the kids, is the reason behind the breakup with his first marriage. Is he still power tripping? Are you going to be ok with a man who so clearly has a need to be dominant in your relationship?
If you are down for the traditional roles in a relationship then go for it! But if you are more independent and he has not changed, that could be a big issue...
Whatever you do with this brotha, STAY AWAY from the other one. Situations are things that change on a daily basis, but a BAD ATTITUDE stinks up the place foreva!
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It may be said with rough accuracy that there are three stages in the life of a strong people. First, it is a small power, and fights small powers. Then it is a great power, and fights great powers. Then it is a great power, and fights small powers, but pretends that they are great powers, in order to rekindle the ashes of its ancient emotion and vanity.-- G.K. Chesterton
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