Just to add my .08 cents worth. It has alot to do that a certain standard regarding our beloved Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated must be maintained. We as sorors must maintain that standard that is we must represent only in the confines in which we are bound by. We must not allow others to influence our natural human feelings to help others in need in such a way it jeopardizes our sorority. Our sisterfriends and significant others must respect that we have made a promise that must not ever be broken and if they love us and our sorority they would never ask us to break our promise. For when and if our sisterfriends become our sorors we expect them to maintain their promise and maintain the standard. We I was in college you never told anyone on the yard that you wanted to become greek and no greek would tell you Anything regarding their FRAT or Sorority!!! It did not and would not happen. I am appalled at the info. which I have attained recently regarding non-greeks and other greeks knowing pertinent information of a particular FRATERNITY or SORORITY. My brother-in-law in fact talks about the greeks in which he dates he knows their rites. I think that is quite SLACK!! I am thankful that my husband, family and friends have respected my love for Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority,Inc. Even the ladies that I know desire membership in our beloved sisterhood. Oh, I had a lady say Oh, I didn't know that you are an AKA you know I have always wanted to join. How do you join? I stated " you must be invited along with other qualifications". Oh really, how do I get invited? I know nothing about this lady except for her name. Back in the day you wouldn't come out and ask someone you didn't know and you would never do it in a public forum. Come on NOW!!!!!!! It is all about RESPECT and this lady is in her mid to late 40s so she knows better.
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