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Originally posted by delph998
So are you saying that I should give him a try? I'm so scared about getting hurt/him getting hurt. I just want things to be right.
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D998,
Time is probably your best ally in this. Time shows us our partners in a variety of lights. As you date him you'll see his personality under certain "stressors." How is he when he's angry (temper)? How is he when "baby mama drama" arrives (responsibility)? How would he be with you if you made more $$ than him (our unexplainable manly machismo thing)? Maybe his actions in these circumstances will allay some of your questions/concerns. He can certainly tell you now how he'd react, but over time you'd see it for yourself.
Date him if you feel so moved. Just don't ignore what he shows you as you get to know each other.
peace.