Personally, I'm sick and tired of members of our sorority having to be on OUR Ps and Qs when we are answering/helping/clarifying the questions and concerns of sisterfriends that are interested in gaining membership. We are here offering our assistance because we choose to...not because we are obligated to. It seems to me that some interests feel that they will settle for nothing less than a brutally polite
prompt,answer that's to their personal liking. If this doesn't happen, they're going to whine and b*tch until they get some sort of apology or clarification. Can somebody tell me what is wrong with this picture?? This is not AskJeeves, this is a respectable forum...one in which sisterfriends are lucky enough to have members of the organization that they wish to be in, here offering their help.
Sorors, I'm not trying to hear that "damned if we do, damned if we don't" nonsense. I WISH I would sit up here explaining the reasons why I chose to answer in a certain way....
I WISH I was anything less than humble when Soror LadyAKA was gracious enough to help me when I was an interest.
Being humble is something that is practiced by the best of us.
If something is said that you don't want to hear, take it with a grain of salt and move on. One thing I learned is not to take anything personal. If you're upset or hurt by a Soror's response to your questions, put an H on your chest and handle it. Get over it quickly and continue on with your quest for the first and finest.
[This message has been edited by Sexy Mocha (edited May 14, 2001).]
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