In response to AKA2D'91s question, yes I and my serious SFs want and appreciate the help that we get from members of YOUR org.
I understand that for some it is very difficult to excercise humility, but when someone who has what you want and is trying to help you get where they are (of course without handing it to to you on a silver platter); you should show as much humility and gratitude as possible.
I have seen SFs go overboard getting really mouthy, cocky, and over confident, saying things like "future soror" just because they are on the net. I have attempted to "guide" them in the right direction in dealing with members(as much as an SF can). None of them have cussed me out yet, but they have told me that they won't back down (from going back & forth with members) because they are not intimidated. I try to explain that it isn't about intimidation but about respecting people who are trying to constructively criticize you. If they don't get that I just leave it alone because I feel that anything I respond with will cause something ugly and I'm too cute to be acting ugly.
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"I don't know. you be the judge."
~Hits
[This message has been edited by CocoaCaramel (edited May 14, 2001).]