I was just being facicious. Just seems that sugar and spice doesn't realize that there's a life outside being an XYZ. I mean if I had to choose school or family over my sorority then I'd probably choose school or family. I mean if someone held one or more jobs just to pay for a sorority and isn't able to really do anything with XYZ sorority then what's the point? If she's spending all her time going to school and working then there's no point in being in a sorority if she can't do anything with them. That's a main purpose of joining a sorority isn't it? To get to know your sisters so you can form a bond? How are you to do that if you're working all the time and going to school?

Everyone is different. That's what makes the world go around. If everyone were the same then yes our priorities would be the same. Since we're all different, it makes sense enough to state that everyone's priorities are different. For example, if your sorority is #1 and your grades are going to crap, then, maybe you should put grades first over your sorority. That's what somebody's paying for you to be there: grades first, sorority second. If someone is ill or died in your family, then your family is going to be first over your sorority. Your sorority shouldn't define you, you should define your sorority. That means making your own priorities according to your individual importance.