Ok. I've been through all of this. To make a long story short my dad is on his third marriage and my mom has never been remarried. They got divorced when I was 12 and I'm turning 24 in less than a month. We all get along (there's me and my little brother who is 21 from my mom and dad's marriage, there's my step mom's two boys that are in high school - one's a senior, the other a freshman - and then there's my older brother who is 33 from my dad's 1st marriage). My mom and dad fought a lot when I was younger so it was a GOOD thing that they got divorced. I always new my dad would remarry - he's just that type - and I'm glad he's married the woman he did. I LOVE my step mom! She's an awesome person and GREAT mother. The cool thing is she's 14 years younger than my dad (he turns 60 this year). Everyone gets along with everyone - including my mom. My mom has even stayed at my dad's house during the holiday's so we can all be together which is really nice. You just have to remember that your parents just want to be happy. Now I KNOW they haven't always liked who you've dated, but you dated them anyway right? Well the same goes for them. You just have to take what's happened and know that they love you, they just want happiness for themselves too. I hope this helps. If there's anything else I can help you with, just let me know.