Do they have any idea that you're sick? You can't expect people to be able to read your mind. Also, there are quite a few new members, that's a lot of people to keep track of, and if they don't know you're sick, they'll have no clue. Maybe they just think you're being aloof and distant.
If you're going to withdrawl from school, you definately need to talk to your new member educator, because you have to be a full time student to be an active member, and to be initiated. You emailed your NME.... it's only been 24 hours, there's a lot of people who don't check their email that often or are bad with responding to it. Or she may have to talk to other officers or an advisor about what to do- which is very likely. This is a new chapter, they haven't had much experience yet.. Have you called her or spoken to her in person?
My general impression is that you're just waiting for people to come to you.
***** To put my mod hat on for awhile.... ladies let's try not to air dirty laundry in public. While it's great to be supportive, that doesn't mean saying negative things about our own chapters. Just a preemptive warning
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