Lawd, where are you ladies finding these cuddle-happy men?

I can't get enough of a guy holding me, and a lot of the guys I run across aren't into it. My last boyfriend was so hot it should have been illegal, and very sweet, but he was also the world's lightest sleeper. If I so much as rolled over in my sleep, he'd wake up grouchy and have trouble going back to sleep. And totally forget about drifting off during any kind of physical contact; he could only fall asleep on the other side of the bed, holding a pillow...