I'm far from being a virgin, but I refuse to criticize someone who chooses to remain one. I learned a lot from my most recent ex-boyfriend who is 21 and still a virgin. He wants to wait until he finds the right girl. At first I was somewhat irritated that he wasn't going to give it up. I think it's mostly because I felt that he didn't really like me if he didn't desire me that way. That right there is the thing that made me grow from our relationship, as short as it was. It had just become a main focus of a lot of my past relationsips, and I think that becomes a huge problem with other people, too. I always thought I was smart enough to know that just because someone doesn't want to sleep with you, it doesn't mean they don't really like you...BUT I was succeptible to that notion and it hurt me. It caused problems and was one of the issues during our breakup. I held out for 2 months with him and after we broke up, I realized that I didn't need sex like I thought I did. So anyway, sorry for rambling, but I just wanted to say to anyone that's waiting- good for you and if you need a guy who's holding out I know one!!!!
