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Originally posted by sugar and spice
But a lot of programs that push abstinence ignore the reality that kids are going to have sex at some point, be it now or later, and they need to be prepared. Too many programs are too idealistic in thinking that virginity pledges are going to work 100% of the time. But they don't. Kids who are committed to abstinence need to be taught the same things that kids who are having sex are taught -- because someday they WILL have to face the same situations.
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when i was in 7th or 8th grade, i made a virginity pledge. during christmas, i wrote a promise to God that I will stay pure until marriage. I feel bad that I broke the promise. But not so bad that I wish I was a virgin again. Because if I were to go back to the moment when I had sex for the first time, I would do it again. The only gulit I have is breaking that promise.