You and I don't agree much but we sure as heck agree on this issue. Virgin is NOT a dirty word. I am NOT going to judge someone because they are a virgin. One the same token do
NOT pass judgement on me and say I am going to hell for not being a virgin (no I was NOT a virgin when I got married)
I also give MTSU girl mad props for being an abstinence teacher. I was a late bloomer and seeing friends get their hearts broken and getting pregnant was enough scare the hell outta me when I was in high school! Kept my pants on!
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Originally posted by bethany1982
Excellent post. I agree about the pressure, but I think there is pressure on both sides. I've seen girls made fun of because of their desire to remain a virgin until they found the connection you speak of. I know a few people into the church abstinence thing and none of them have ever told me I'm going to hell because I'm not a virgin. I think those groups may be good for some people, I don’t know. As far as the guys who have posted with negative remarks about virgin girls on this thread, I'll bet most of them wouldn't turn down the chance to be someone's first. Unless of course, they themselves really have no experience and would be afraid they might destroy their own image. Everyone has choices to make. I made mine and am comfortable with it.
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