[RedRoseSAI]

Thanks for all the help everyone! I've decided to go with a mixture of AOIIsilver and honeychile's suggestions. I'm using the good china, white tablecloth, mom's gold leaf glasses (these exact glasses were featured in Martha Stewart in a "vintage glassware" article - perfect!) and I purchased bright placemats at Linens n Things. They're made out of rubber, so I think the effect will be delightfully tacky. Still haven't been able to find a nice apron, but maybe Grandma has one...

I'll let you know how it goes!