I was just thinking about this the other day. I don't want my man to be a thug at all. Most of the guys that I meet around my hood are thuggish in some way, shape, or form. (I am wondering where all the "nerds" are. Where are the guys that like to read, are reasonably well-informed, and don't spend half of their days standing outside of some store.)
But I digress. You don't have to be a thug to have a backbone. You don't have to be a thug to handle your business. Women do these things everyday and manage to be ladies; men can hold it down and still behave as gentlemen. Besides, a man who can get what he wants without raising his voice, or his fist, is much more sexy.
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