Once again, thanks Lady Pi Phi! I am one of those people that don't want children. If I wanted a child, I'd adopt and I know I can naturally conceive. I don't have to have the perfect family because we live in an imperfect world. I agree that the amount of children in the adoption system works both ways: (1) there's too few so-called "perfect children" in the system and (2) there's way too many children in the system. We all need to learn that no one is perfect and you have to live in an imperfect world. There's no way anyone can have perfection in an imperfect world. You can't create perfection. Also, if you naturally conceive, you run the risk of birth defects, learning disabilities, etc. There was no way that my parents could have known both me and my brother would have a math learning disability. If they had known prior to our births, would they have had us? I am pretty sure that I can say yes because they are realists just like me and know that this is an imperfect life but they can love me perfectly. The only perfect thing in this life is true love.