I used to say that I wanted a man with some "thug" to him but I realized that I was just intrigued by characters in movies who were educated, witty, sexy, attractive and was still able to take care of his woman if some danger came along. ie (Tango and Cash) I equated the "adventure" in a man with being a "thuging" Now, I've learned I don't want the "thug" I want a man who has the qualities I listed earlier AND who can handle and take care of himself and me if ever a situation called for it. And I am blessed to have one sent my way (smile)
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