I have always felt that having a child is a very selfish act. Parents bring children into this world because THEY want one (or not...but that's another thread entirely). No child asks to be brought into this world. They are here because the parent(s) wanted the joy (or pain) of having and raising a child.
Now, I'm not saying, if you can't conceive naturally then you can't have a child. I feel that, if having a child is what you really want and you feel that you are ready to take on the responsibilites of having a child, then go for it. 2 of my cousins were conceived through in vitro. My aunt and uncle are wonderful parents, and their 2 boys are beautiful, healthy children.
I think useing artificial conception methods are fine if you really want to have your own children.
I would actually love to see more people adopt.
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