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Originally posted by zchi2
I personally don't feel like the actives are asking much from the pledges. Maybe it is ok in some people's organization here on greekchat to miss ALL pledging/new member activities but to me that is really unexpectable. It doesn't seem like to me that they are asking the pledges to "prove" themselves. All they are asking is for them to make an honest effort to get to know the other people they are pledging with and also the actives. Meena will be soon on the other side of the country in a couple of months. This is her only time that she has to get to know the people in the sorority. I STILL don't understand why she is pledging. I'm sure she doesn't need friends that badly.
Why is it ok for her to miss all activities but she HAS to go to everything for her other groups? The sorority doesn't have to be No.1 in her life but why does it have to be dead last all the time?
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zchi2, I totally agree with you. I think the only reason she is pledging is to put it on her resume.
And I'm sure if any of your groups had a pledge who NEVER EVER EVER came to anything and blew stuff off all the time, you'd want her head on a plate too.