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Originally posted by tammy-:
I think it is great that you want to stick by your man! Just remember the differenc between supporting someone and carrying DEAD WEIGHT! I have been caught with totally dead weight by someone who wanted to turn around their life and start making the right decisions who also said that they needed my support. A lot of times people think that they can change someone or help them see the light. NOT THE CASE!
I personally have decided that I can not and will NOT date anyone who does not have their *hit together.. I mean planned out goals and the like!
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Thank you, Tammy!!! This is what I was trying to get at, but I couldn't figure out how to word it! Dead weight!!
At what point does the person become dead weight?
Let me put some new info in here for you. The relationship has been on and off for 8 years. This isn't the first time that this issue has come up. And there is a child involved.
Um, BTW, THIS IS NOT ABOUT ME!!!!! LOL, I felt like I had to put that out there.
But, SKEEriously, it is for a friend. So keep the responses coming!!
Talk amongst yourselves, Discuss!
