You will not believe how many times i have had this sort of discusion with my signif. other. We go up and down constantly about it. the scenario you presented is exactly identical. Since I had been confronted with his attempts at becoming more focused, I have found that he needs my support. Not to do things for him but to ask for advice. A lot of things I have done all my life are very difficult to him because he has no experience with it. All of his decisions have been made for him as of yet by his parents(damn, damn damn!). And he doesn't know what direction to take because he never had to. I have been steadily sticking by him and he has done the same for me. Maybe he and I won't work out but so far we are so good. I'm just happy he has recognized that he needs to straighten up before its too late. I do hope that he makes it though. But I don't doubt that i would be able to call it quits if I don't see improvement
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