[oceanphi01]

I know I've never received any, but I know sisters that have. It depends on how they give it to you. There are some of my sisters that just get rush shirts because the boys hand them out. If you are dating a guy and he gives you his letters, he is serious about you. There's also being lavaliered by the guy and being pinned by his fraternity. Pinning is usually only done when he is VERY serious about you and there's an actual ceremony and everything (one of my sisters just had this happen). Hope this helps!