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Here's one of the "old alums" who has been around the block a couple times (and at the wedding altar and divorce court a couple times). Here's the deal: He may or may not change his mind BUT you have to decide if you want to spend your life with him if he doesn't. Don't ever marry someone hoping or expecting that he will change down the line. You have to be prepared to live with how he feels about children right now. I agree that most men who feel that strongly about not having children do not change their minds. If you feel you have to have children to have a full life for yourself, then, unless he changes his mind before you tie the knot, don't go into it thinking that you'll convince him. If you don't convince him, you may be miserable.
Dee
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