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Originally posted by Lil' Hannah
I think that's what she was getting at...
Anyway, we too had the "let the PNM guide you rule" but I don't know if it was schoolwide or just what our chapter did. I remember hearing some stories from girls who preffed at other houses who were given shoulder massages and had their hair played with while they were sitting in the circle in front of the sister who was standing behind them. Kinda strange if you ask me.
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The hair-playing and massanging would have FREAKED ME OUT like no other. I'm not a huggy person but I can understand hugging at pref. However, I think I ended up offending some of our PNMs this year when I went back to help - I didn't know any of the freshmen (obviously) but there were a bunch of SigEp girlfriends there that I'm friendly with, so naturally I hugged them as soon as I saw them and I think the new girls felt bad that I didn't hug them.
Personally, if I'd been hugged during rush, I think I would have gotten over it - it's not like the girl was going to hug me every time she sees me. And I think mushing is kind of like door songs in that it's just ingrained down there.
