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Originally posted by Jaggergirl
and a tip from the single girl: for the sake of your friends, think of things to talk about besides your wedding and your gifts. I know its a big day but so many of my friends become "me me me" machines for their entire engagement periods.
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AMEN!! It's one day...
Why do women do this and not men????
I don't want to deny it is a big deal, but you are a woman with many other dimensions/goals besides "bride"...
I have seen many women get so wrapped up in the one day that, after the wedding and honeymoon are over and done with, they face post-wedding day depression because there's nothing else like it to occupy their time/energy anymore! (This is one reason why I won't live with the man I'm going to marry before we get married...I'll still have "newness" to brighten my day: developing life as a married couple!)
Please maintain your identity and interests....