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This just makes me so sad, and I agree that NPC groups do have alot to learn about AI. Even in my own organization, I hear about drastically different attitudes on the subject. I pledged in a community that LOVED alum initiates (DZ & Alpha Gam constantly initiated women from the community), and even today, I am sponsoring 2 women for AI, in a town that doesn't have a collegiate chapter. But I've heard of alum chapters in towns with established groups & collegiate chapters that aren't so open-minded about it...women who have trouble understanding why anyone would want to be initiated as an alum.... I am often surprised by the number of times we've discussed this on Surfing Sisters where someone will mention they're sponsoring someone, and people will post that they've never even heard of the possibility of AI.
I guess its just going to take some more time...even for those orgs that strongly encourage AI, to make it more mainstream & less unusual.
Adrienne-you have put so much energy into your search--I can't even come close to knowing how this has made you feel...and I can't speak for everyone, I've never met you, but your diligence is commendable. Keep your chin up, take a deep breath. We're here for you!
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