Reid,
I think you were a little rough on DeltAlumn.
He basically said,
(1) if you guys aren't guilty, why doesn't somebody SAY, "hey, this stuff never happened?"
(2) He hopes you're NOT guilty, because this sort of activity isn't really conducive to brotherhood or being a part of a gentlemanly fraternity.
(3) If you are guilty, then it's obviously not slander.
Nobody on here wants anything but the best for FIJI, UCSB or otherwise. However, I also don't think you're going to find supporters of hazing on this board.
Your second post was just plain strange. Your first was so eloquent and wise; the second was head-scratchingly juvenile and angry.
What's up?
This is def. the place to come for support! It's a community of greeks who can appreciate what brotherhood and sisterhood truly mean, even if we don't share the same specific bonds. Regardless of if you guys never hazed or if you hazed before and don't now, I think you'll find this group'll stand behind you.
And lay off Delta Tau Delta. They've got some fantastic guys, just like Phi Gamma Delta does.