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Originally posted by DST Love:
I don't think that most people are saying Segun is gay just because he is into his appearance. During the Truth or Dare, they asked him had he ever fantasized about other men. He very quickly said that he had and all men had. He was also saying that he's sure whenever most men are with their gay friends in a gay bar, they wonder about the other side. All of the men at the casting special were yelling NO, not me. The women were in shock. Now whether men are lying or not, I know of no straight men that would admit to thinking about other men. I also don't know of any straight men who knowingly have gay friends or that have been in a gay bar. And if they have, they wouldn't admit it if they are really straight. I don't care whether or not he's gay (although I believe he is but unwilling to acknowledge it just yet) but I think that's probably why people think he's gay.
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Dang, I was just thinking about that whole Truth or Dare thing!
I thought that he had said that he didn't fantasize about being taken or whatever, but he did wonder from time to time what it would be like.
Frankly, I think there are more heterosexual men that wonder from time to time than they, of course, will admit. And for those that were yelling "NO!" and flipping out, well..methinks doth protest too much.
When people protest too much, that usually leads me to think that they are hiding something about their own sexuality/sexual orientation or that they are not secure in their sexuality.
I'm not saying that
all heterosexual men fantasize about other men or even wonder on an intellectual level. (So don't anybody get into a tizzy. *lol*) But I think that more men do than they let on. When I saw the casting special and his Truth or Dare response, I actually said, "OK, this brotha really took it there." *chuckle* I thought that he could be gay, or it could be just that he his secure in his sexuality (heterosexuality) to have gay friends, go to a gay club, to admit that it has crossed his mind and
not feel threatened.
I don't know. I could see how folks would think he was gay based on that Truth or Dare thing. But I just didn't think he was gay. *shrug* I think I'm alone in that though. *lol*
Alright, I think I'm done talking about Segun now.