[AlphaPhiBubbles]

Well I always thought that when it came to bigs/littles it was usually up to the Littles to decide who they want as Bigs...I mean it is the new members first experience with the sorority so I think they should have first priority. Anyway and also with the hug thing...I'm sorry but not only is that weird but isn't it HAZING??? Making you do something that the actives don't have to do...plus in this case it makes you uncomfortable...if it were me I'd probably tell her to F off, even though she is my sister ....cuz you know just cuz you might be sisters doesn't mean you have to be best friends and everyone should be treated with equal respect anyway.

ok off my little soapbox.